Bullying/Peer Pressure

Bulling is something that’s happened unfortunately every day, and destroys young life. People have killed them self, and cut them self on wrist. Is it impossible to know how the person feels? Often the parents don’t know about this things, and teachers often doesn’t see things like bullying but sometimes if the teachers know they have like two choose, trying to do something and think they know everything what this person have gone truth and try to be the “parent” in the situation, but that’s so wrong of them! The other is that they just look at the other side, just so the school can have a good reputation.

 
When I think of Bullying the first that’s comes on my mind is a group the hits and say bad words to the offer, but hitting someone and say bad words to the offer isn’t what’s bullying it’s all about. Bullying has levels, and different grades. The different levels in bullying are:

·        Physique bullying – when you hit, kick, pulling the hair, grope, destroy things like homework, bags, clothes etc.

·        Verbal bullying – Disparaging comments, mockery, threat, nicknames etc.

·        Psychic bullying – Looks, sigh, ignore, look a way, doesn’t care about the person opinion, moves away from the person etc.

·        Internet bullying – Putting false reputation on the internet, sending threat sms, spreading pitchers and films of the person etc.

 
This happens every day in school, people have taking suicide because they couldn’t handle the pressure anymore. But why do the bully “leader” in the group and all the other people in this group do this? To be popular? To fill like that they are better than the offer? Have they been in the same situation as the offer, and are now taking the anger at the wrong person? Do the bullying “leader” just want to show how it feels the be hurt? Or has the person bad at home? It’s allot of questions, but the answer is different. I think the main reason to bullying a person is that they have been the offer, and has it bad at home. They are hurt inside and no one under stands them, but someone just doing it for fun and are just psychic damage in the head.

 
For two years ago a girl wrote something on her MySpace that a “friend” to her didn’t like, so one day told this friend to this girl if she wanted to do something with some other person and at the end of the they did something, but they were sitting in the car to this friends grandma’s house their they started to hit her, pulling her hair, and it was 6 girl that was betting her while the 2 guys that also went in the car filmed when the girls attack this girl how had written a thing on her MySpace, that they didn’t like. When they had hit her several hours she had bruise, she had lost a big quantity of hair, swollen face, and she had broken bones.

 
This things happens a lot, people attack innocent person. But this girl had said on her MySpace that she would love to physique abuse her again, and she would love her for every second of it, and that’s is a just sic and horrible that she can think like that, and how people can do something like that.

 
But something that’s really hurtful story is Columbine high school. After that Eric Harris had been the bullying offer for a long time a bomb had exploded inside of him. Year 1997 Eric had go to websites there he had looked up how to do your own explode substance, so the year 1999 April the 20 Eric Harris and his friend Dylan Klebold went to Columbine High school with their guns, and explosion subjects then them and went and attract the school. They killed 12 students and one teacher, and they injured 24 students and teachers. When the cops went to the school and started to save all of the students and put them to safety, and tried to save the students and teachers inside the school, but when they tried to go in to the school Eric and Dylan started to shoot to the cops and the cops started to shoot back, but after the shooting Eric and Dylan shoot themselves in the head.

 
Things like bullying are a big and serious problem, it must stop now, but to try to stop right away is impossible. In Sweden we have Friends it’s a group that’s help person that are bullied in school on their feet’s again and try to build up their confidence.

 Peer pressure is something that makes people goes the other way instead of the way they want to go actually; like if the person doesn’t want to party and drink the friend/person can change their mind like that they say we aren’t going to drink just having fun, but in the end the person that didn’t want to do this is lying in a ditch unconscious and the person friends just had walk away, and with peer pressure you can do something that you regret the they after. But peer pressure can also be good, if your friend wants you to come with to a movie, a zoo, amusement park, go ice skating or do something fun, then peer pressure is good to make a person happy, have fun and have wonderful memories in their life.

MySpace Girl.


Columbine high school


Columbine High School

Source:
http://sv.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mobbning
http://sv.wikipedia.org/wiki/Columbinemassakern